To juliehotmom: If «anal isn't really all that enjoyable» for you, maybe ur doing something wrong or not doing something u should do before having anal sex. I really enjoy it. You'd be surprised if you'd know the diameters of the toys we (me and my wife) use and far from feeling any pain, all is pleasure.
So try to find out that "wrong thing" that's making you think «anal isn't really all that enjoyable» and don't fall again on it... ;¬)